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Online School: does it really have to be this stressful?

  Let's be honest, as crucial as school is, it's not always the best for our mental health. And this holds especially true during the pandemic, where online school has become the new norm for most of us. While I understand that it's the only alternative for now, it's no secret that online school has become a burden of sorts, with most of us feeling more unenthusiastic for classes than we ever were when school was taking place physically. And let's not even pretend that online learning is even comparable to "normal" school (is it even accurate to call physical school, "normal" at this point") because it's really not. And staring at our laptop screens for 6 hours straight for school, followed by us either consuming some form of media through our devices or trying to study/complete our assignments (with the help of our laptops usually) isn't at all healthy either.  It seems as though our parents (and teachers) are under the belief that...
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The Pressure's On

We all must have heard of peer pressure and a lot of us seem to have faced it too.  First let's understand what peer pressure is. It means how the behaviour of a person is influenced by someone with similar abilities or someone of similar age, social status, or belonging to the same group of friends.  Most of us have a strong desire to fit in, to follow the in-trend, and - especially as teenagers - we’re extremely sensitive to being picked on, made fun of or being called out because of our “differences”. It is for that reason we have a strong desire to follow what our peers tell us to do. There is the constant fear of being called out for not being “skinny'', “cool” or for being “nerds”, or not following trends, even when we don’t realise it.  Peer pressure plays a big role in our lives and it influences almost every choice we make - the kind of music we like, the clothes we wear, what we eat and, sometimes, it also influences our lifestyle. This is seen, for instance, ...

A Look in The Mirror

Recently a lot of awareness against body shaming has surfaced on the internet yet it still is a major problem that teenagers, irrespective of their gender, face today. The term body shaming means to degrade or mock someone on the basis of their physical appearance. It actually has a very wide scope, it can include mocking someone’s size, height, hair, weight, muscularity and even facial features. There are three ways of body shaming - one is mocking someone’s appearance in front of them, then comes doing that behind someone’s back and the most dangerous type of body shaming is probably when we become our own critiques and compare ourselves to others.  Why do people body shame? When we are arguing with someone, sometimes the easiest way to hurt them is probably by making fun of their appearance. Instead of conveying emotions appropriately, some people end up taking personal jabs at each other and others think it’s funny. When did it become funny to call out a person on their body? M...

Let’s Discuss Period Stigma

I am sure most of us have either seen our (female) classmates scurry into the washroom holding a pouch or hiding something in their pockets; maybe YOU did this yourself (at least when school was offline). 8 times out of 10, it was most likely a pad or a menstrual product that they were hiding.  Periods, also known as Menstruation, Chums, Monthlies, Time of the Month or even The Shark Week, and numerous other innovative names that mainly women came up with, to prevent men from understanding what they are talking about or just to avoid saying that shameful word. Does that really make sense? There was this viral tweet from 2019, and it asked:  "Women, what is the dumbest thing a man ever said to you about ... menstruation, etc?" There were many hilarious tweets like: "My husband thought I had to take a tampon out to pee." "Someone I was dating asked me if I could reschedule my period so it didn't coincide with his birthday." But at the same time: "A ...

Let's Talk About Relationships

Romance, relationships, heartbreak and drama. Most romantic-comedy movies (or TV shows) - specifically aimed at teens and pre-teens - have convinced us all that “you’re not REALLY living your teenage-years, unless you’ve experienced a relationship, major drama, and heartbreak”. But, how true really is that?  Let’s talk about relationships.  There is no denying that crushes, and subsequent relationships, are one of the most common experiences that you’d face in middle school through highschool. But, honestly? It’s really not the end all be all.   The beauty of being in a romantic relationship, for me, lies in the self-discovery, self-growth, comfort and security you are bound to face. In my personal opinion, all relationships - romantic, platonic, familial - teach you a lesson. And it is your duty to learn from that lesson, and grow as an individual, simply so that your future interpersonal relationships can improve.  However, the lessons you learn are not always posi...